Make Space for Your Story
Ask for a doula whose experience fits what you need, whether that is time to talk, practical preparation or privacy around your fertility journey.
Make time for your questions and the practical details of welcoming your baby. Plan the help you will want once your baby is home.

Sarah Schofield teaches private childbirth classes through The Prepared Birth. Her classes at The Birthing Inn and Madrona Physical Therapy cover epidurals, unmedicated birth, waterbirth, cesareans and VBAC. Current offerings and prices are on her website.
Ask about training and the topics covered. Choose an approach that respects informed choice and makes room for your questions and your planned birth setting.
Yes, and your experience matters. You decide what to share and how you want to prepare for birth and life with your baby.

Ask for a doula whose experience fits what you need, whether that is time to talk, practical preparation or privacy around your fertility journey.
Use preparation sessions to organize questions for your clinical team, including induction or cesarean preparation where it applies. Your clinicians will help determine the care and setting that are right for your pregnancy.
Think ahead about rest and newborn care. Fertility and perinatal mental health professionals can offer more support when you want it. ReproductiveFacts.org from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine lists counseling resources.
Ask about a doula's actual experience and training rather than assuming every doula specializes in pregnancies after IVF.
A postpartum doula offers daytime or overnight support that can make the first weeks easier. Services and hours vary by provider, so ask what a real visit looks like.
A covered birth doula benefit does not automatically cover overnight newborn care or household help. Check the exact service with your insurer or benefits administrator and see our insurance guide.

A lactation professional is usually the right person. Find the right professional for your questions about breastfeeding, pumping or combination feeding. A doula and a lactation professional have different roles, although some doulas hold feeding credentials as well.
Yes. You do not need to have the right words to ask for help.

Bereavement doulas may offer emotional and practical support around pregnancy loss, stillbirth or infant death. Ask about each provider's training and availability.
Your preferences and pace matter. Support may include help preparing questions and honoring your family's wishes. It may also include finding grief counseling or community resources.
Send Sarah a message using the form below. She will help you find relevant resources and available support.

Not sure where to start? Sarah brings 15 years of experience supporting Tacoma families as a birth and postpartum doula, childbirth educator and birth assistant. Send her a message about doula options or exploring The Birthing Inn. She'll help you find your next step.
Sarah Schofield, The Prepared Birth
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Contact The Birthing InnSarah can help you explore services, but she cannot confirm your coverage. Check your benefits directly with your insurer, Apple Health or your employer's benefits administrator. Our insurance guide explains what to ask.